A child is like a butterfly in the wind. Some can fly higher than others but each one flies the best it can. Why compare one against the other? Each one is different. Each one is special. Each one is beautiful.
When you look at butterflies flying in the wind, you will see that some strong ones fly high, others fly lower. But they have one thing in common is that they are all trying to fly as high as they can to feel the sunlight and the open space above.
Children are just like those butterflies. They all aspire to achievement and happiness. They all strive to reach their own destination.
But each person is a separate individual, with his own personality, individual capacity, and destination. The concept of happiness, how to feel the happiness, and the ways leading to happiness are also very different.
So never compare the children with each other because you can accidentally put pressure on them or hurt them. Let them grow in their own way.
Let them enjoy a life that makes them most independent, satisfied and happy. Because every child is unique, special, and a beautiful angel in this life.