How to identify a Ch.e.a.t.e.r BEFORE C.h.e.a.t
Everyone is looking for genuine love in a relationship, that’s why when someone cheats on you it’s the worst feeling ever. To avoid heartbreak, it’s best to know how to spot a cheater before you do. These are signs to be cautious when starting a new relationship or if you are already in one. Knowing these signs will help you avoid cheaters so that you can eventually find a person who won’t break your heart.
1.They are always unavailable and make vague excuses
If your new partner tends to be very unavailable and tries to avoid telling you where they’ve been or what they’re doing, it could be a sign that they might be a ch.e.a.t.e.r.
2.They’re Hyper-Flirty and Hustle You Into Bed
This could be a sign that he/she is just a player and is looking for $ex, or it could be disguised as being $exually private.
3.They are protective of their phone
The few times you’ve been out, does it seem like your date spends a lot of time on their phone or is sending private messages or talking when you’re not around or have your back turned? It’s always a red flag if they are paying more attention to your mobile device than you did at first. And, if you feel they are being secretive about who you are contacting, be careful.
4.Usually includes Inconsistencies
Your stories don’t match; he/she breaks dates without explanation or contradicts himself/herself when talking about things that happened “at that thing last weekend.” If you notice inconsistencies in what your partner says about how they spend their time, money [or] activities, and what’s really going on, this can also be a sign.
5.Sudden Mood Changes
They could be either the nicest person, bringing you gifts, or someone who wants to pick a fight for everything they do. These sudden mood swings can be a sign that they are a cheater. Caring for a partner to be too much in one way or another. Starting fights can be an excuse to start thinking about a breakup, which may be something they want if they are cheating. If they are used to cheating in relationships, their mood swings are a trait that is continuous with the secret actions they tend to take.
6.They are private about their personal life
If your partner doesn’t want to share more about their personal life with you, it could mean that they want to create a boundary with you if they end up cheating on you. They prefer to keep this personal data to themselves, to better control their position in the relationship.
7.They are Negative Communicators
A relationship with poor communication is not a good foundation for something healthy. If you are the one who is constantly asking for reassurances and solving problems and you don’t want to communicate, it may be due to the fact that you are a cheater. Ch.e.a.t.e.r.s are bad communicators, so make sure your partner is kind when you speak, even in disagreement. If they want you to yell, your anger at them may become an excuse for them to cheat on you.
Source:womenworking.com, stylecaster.com
