If you’re seeing several of these signs in your partner, be attentive! They are betraying you
1. Their Routine Changes
Handling an affair requires a balancing act, which means cheating partners have to count their minutes. If you notice that your partner’s schedule or routine suddenly changes, it could mean that they’re being unfaithful.
These small changes sometimes means nothing more than life has given your partner a reason to be unavailable or enjoy something new. Nonetheless, it’s something to be aware of.
2. They Start Fights With You
When a partner cheats, it’s common for them to feel emotions like shame, anger, and guilt, and to look for somewhere to displace those feelings.
If your partner has been picking fights with you, it could be their way to let out their negative feelings. Instead of carrying on this way, get to the root of the problem and find out why they’re so argumentative.
3. They Smell Different
If your partner is coming around smelling like a perfume or aftershave that you don’t wear, then he or she has been too close with someone who does wear it.
Besides smelling different, look for random hairs, lipstick smudges and any other suspicious belongings that may be kicking around your partner’s home, car or office.
4. Your Partner’s Interests Change
If your boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse becomes interested in things they hated before, it could be because they are absorbing someone else’s interests.
The same goes for speech. As humans we have a habit of adapting our speech to those we are around, so keep an ear out for any strange words or sayings that suddenly become part of your partner’s everyday vocabulary.
5. Your Partner’s S3x Drive Increases
It’s not uncommon for your s3x life to be a roller coaster of highs and lows if you are in committed relationships. However, if your partner has simmered down in the bedroom then suddenly has an insane s3x drive, it’s possible that their libido has been reawakened by someone else.
6. They Lose Their Jealous Streak
It may seem harmless, but it’s also a red flag for cheating.
If the idea of someone being interested in you used to send them through the roof, your partner can now use those thoughts as a way to feel better about their affair. When their jealous streak swiftly fades, then you may want to find out why.
7. They Hide Their Phone From You
Have you caught your partner hiding their phone from you, deleting messages or getting paranoid anytime you’re near it? If so, then the alarm bells should be ringing!
This kind of behaviour is a clear sign that they’re hiding something from you.
Pay attention to the calls they take behind closed doors and who they say called or texted. Their body language and tone are sure to tell you what’s going on.
