No Matter How Close You And Your Ex Is, Never Tell Them About These 7 Things
1. Never talk about his/her new relationship
Relationship is very personal; don’t try to know anything about the new relationship. That is your ex’s cross, let him or her bear it. Even if your ex try to tell you about it, avoid such conversation. If you refuse and talk about it, your ex may think you are still interested in a relationship with him or her. If possible avoid asking about if he or she is in a new relationship.
2. Asking if he/she misses you
You should be more concern about self-building than trying to know if an ex is missing you. You may really be sure your ex will miss you, notwithstanding, don’t ask, let your ex keep that to him or herself. If your ex try to let you he or she misses you, try to avoid talking much about it so you won’t make yourself look desperate and wanting your ex back.
3. About how you move on
People have different ways to move on after a break up. While some may need help of others, some do not. Any which way your own is, it is not a gist to tell your ex. The conclusion is that you have moved on and that is all.
4. Your new relationship
DOn’t discuss about your new relationship or try to compare it. If your ex tries to compare your new relationship with the former, shun him or her. The point is that your new relationship is presently working so don’t compare it with the ended one. Whether your new relationship is better than the former is something you should keep to yourself, you may even tell anyone you feel like but not your ex.
5. Your S3xual Status
The boundary should be maintained, an ex is an ex, don’t try to be over familiar with your ex to the extent of discussing your present s3xual status. Even if you were a virgin when you were with your ex, you do not own your ex an explanation about your present s3xual status. Whether you have had s3x after the break up is not something to discuss with your ex.
6. If he/she is feeling your new vibes
After breaking up, some people always want to spite their exes. You see them doing all sorts and going extra miles to be better off than when they were with their exes. It is a good thing to try to be better but let that be because you love seeing yourself getting better and not to impress an ex. No matter how much you have invested on yourself, do not ask your ex to give remarks about your new status. It may make him/her start believing all the investment if to spite or provoke his or her attention even when it is not.
7. If he/she still wants you
Whether your ex wants you or not is your concern. This most especially makes you look like someone that still want your ex back. It shows you have not let go of the relationship. You may think you have moved on, but when you are being desperate about asking your ex this, shows you are still obsessed with the relationship with your ex and have not moved on.
