The 9 Biggest Signs He Doesn’t Want To Be With You Anymore
1) He’s always annoyed at you
Everything you do bothers him.
He gets irritated even by the little things you do. Those quirks that he used to find cute and love about you now seem to get on his nerves.
You’re wondering why the way you laugh irritates him. Even the way you cuddle him while watching a movie now makes him uncomfortable.,
It could be because you’re annoying him, he’s tired, or having a stressful time.
But since you know him better — and if you can’t see what’s affecting him — take this as a warning sign that he’s having second thoughts about his feelings for you.
2. He takes forever to reply to your texts
In the beginning of a relationship, things are normally quite intense. You want to see each other all the time and there’s a lot of texting back and forth.
As the relationship matures and you both get firmly settled in, it is expected that some the initial intensity would die down and the texting would decrease over time.
But if he’s routinely disappearing for days at a time and getting annoyed at you for being upset about it, it’s a clear sign he doesn’t want to hear from you and might not even want to be in a relationship with you anymore.
3. He stops apologizing for what he did
Sometimes he would do things to hurt you. But he’ll just ignore this and won’t apologize.
If you can feel that he’s arguing with you for a purpose, then it’s a red flag warning. It shows that he doesn’t care about your feelings anymore.
He might be using this as a reason to break off your relationship.
4. He gets angry for no reason
What was once a sweet relationship is turning into a horror movie.
When you’re together, he gets snappy and impatient at everything. His fuse is getting shorter, and his tolerance level is dropping.
He’s yelling at you at the slightest little thing. You can almost feel that he’s screaming as he wants you out.
Don’t let this behavior surprise you. It’s a disturbing sign that he doesn’t love you anymore.
5. He doesn’t make time for you anymore
When your man is no longer making you a priority in his life, it is a good sign that the relationship might be over. No matter how busy he is, if he really sees connecting with you as important, he would carve out time to spend with you.
When he says he’s busy as an excuse not to hang out, see it as an avoidance tactic. He wants to avoid you because he is not ready to face the reality that the relationship might be over. He doesn’t want the responsibility of dealing with the issue, and so he chooses to avoid you all together.
If your man turns down a date or two because of prior commitments or because he’s tired, then that’s understandable. But, when he has an excuse every time, it more than likely means he doesn’t want to spend time with you at all and the relationship could be coming to an end.
6. He disagrees with you
Disagreements and differences in a relationship are normal.
But when he doesn’t want to compromise or resolve even the smallest things, it is a signal for a disaster.
You can also see that he starts blowing everything out of proportion and picks on you at the slightest chance.
If he’s doing this most of the time, look at this as a sign that something isn’t right with his feelings for you.
7. He’s withdrawn all the time
He used to share his day and talk about anything with you — from how his day was to how he’s feeling.
But now, he has shut down, pulls away, and refuses to talk.
If he wants to work something on his own or maybe he’s experiencing a phase of being withdrawn, it’s normal.
But then, if it comes to a point where he doesn’t want to talk to you for an extended period, that’s not normal. It’s a sign that he doesn’t care about your relationship anymore.
8. Your intimate life doesn’t exist
It’s very common for there to be a lot of intensity at the beginning of a relationship, a concept we’ve discussed before. You want to be next to each other all the time, you can’t keep your hands to yourself and this is normal.
Over time, it is expected that your steamy intimate life will slow down to a pace that is more natural for you both.
However, when you’ve stopped having intimacy altogether and it doesn’t seem like your guy is even attracted to you or turned on by you anymore, it’s a big sign the relationship is over.
9. He doesn’t talk about your future together
Once upon a time, he was the man who dreams about the life you’ll share.
The two of you talk about where you’ll spend the holidays, where you might live, and even the kids you might have.
But now, he avoids any plans about the future, both near and distant.
This just means that he doesn’t see or believe that there will be a future for your relationship.
References: hackspirit.com, anewmode.com
