For men, physical intimacy is a convenient next step to take the relationship to the next level. Between two people in love, body language sometimes represents a message more than words. Unfortunately, these body language signals are sometimes a bit difficult to realize and understand. In this article, we’ll explore what does it mean that a man puts his hand on a women’s leg, according to psychology?
“He’s interested in you.”
Touching your thigh is a foundation in the flirting book, especially when you’re both having a good time. It’s often his way of saying, “I really enjoy spending time with you, and I want to make it clear that I’m interested in you.” Physical contact is often the first step to breaking the touch barrier. Touching your thigh is especially romantic when you’re in a car together. If he’s driving, his range of motion is limited, so touching your leg is a common gesture.
“I want to protect you.”
If a guy likes you, he may feel protective of you, or like he needs to protect you — it’s a way of representing he cares. By touching your leg, he may be trying to let you know he’s decided to take it upon himself to protect you.
“I want to take our relationship further.”
Sometimes, you and the guy already know that you like each other, but haven’t yet entered the intimate stage. If he touches your thigh, it may be his way of asking, “Can I touch you?” and this is your chance to answer. If you both say yes, then congratulations! You’ve just moved your relationship from “talking” to “physical contact,” and things can get more tough from there.
“I want to take things to the bedroom.”
Sometimes, a guy touches your leg to signal that he wants to take things more inti:mate than just holding hands. This is especially true if he’s driving you home, or if you and he drink wine while chatting at a bar or restaurant. He may only touch your leg now, but he may be hoping things get more attractive behind closed doors.
“I want to see how you react.”
Sometimes a guy likes you, but wants to get other signals before he tries to kiss you or confess. Putting a hand on your leg can be one of the ways he draws your attraction to him, especially if he’s shy. If you answer positively by smiling, making eye contact, or reciprocating, then he knows he’s got the green light.