You Should Never Do These 5 Things To Keep Your Partner
1. Act Dumb
Don’t dumb down yourself because of another person. You might be thinking that if you play a bit stupid, they will like you or you will stop intimidating them.
Don’t be scared or apologetic about being your true self.
If a person cannot connect with you on a deeper intellectual plane, then you shouldn’t even be with them or at least you should not try to make yourself look dumb for their sake.
2. Pretend To Like Things You Hate
Don’t do it. Don’t pretend.
You do not have to watch the same genre of movies that they like or like the same songs that they like. It’s okay to be a little different from them. A person who wants you will accept all your differences and would not ask you to mirror them.
3. Become A Stereotype
Most times your partner have a stereotype of the kind of person they want to be with. Don’t become that stereotype if it isn’t you already. Do not pretend to be someone else because you will only end up being terribly unhappy.
Always be confident in your own skin and most importantly learn to be your own person, every other person is taken.
4. Alter Your Physical Appearance
You should never change yourself physically because of your partner.
Never cut your hair or dye it. Never pierce yourself or get a tattoo because your partner thinks it will look cool.
never start wearing long skirts and long shirts because your partner prefers modesty.
You should never allow your partner try to mold you into their idea of what their ideal person should look like physically.
5. Leave Your Friends
If a person you like is telling you to leave your friends or family for them, run!
Keep in mind that your friends were there before your relationship and when things end, they will still be there.
It is great to hang out with your partner in a relationship, but hanging out with your friends is also equally great. You should look for a balance so that none feels neglected.
